I am going to try my best to put into words what Stephanie has done for me, but the truth is, no words could ever explain it.
My daughter Sabina was born 2 weeks and 1 day over due at 6:10am on a Monday morning after laboring since Saturday evening and being induced Sunday evening. No sleep, back to back contractions, water broke, originally unwanted but necessary epidural, fully dilated but no baby! Emergency c-section and we finally got to meet our perfect girl!
None of this was in my plan and so when Sabina was taken to the Nicu and had to be given formula, barely given chances for skin to skin and nursing, I was devastated. Of course I was happy she was getting healthy but my beliefs and values were getting crushed! Luckily with a mom and sister-in-law who breastfed, I had support in my conviction to continue nursing Sabina no matter what anyone said.
After 4 days, we arrived home with a nipple shield and formula. My husband was supportive but confused, he just wanted Sabina to be happy and healthy, when I laid down, he gave her formula just like the Nicu had taught him. More crushing.
My mom reached out to Steph for me as I grew up with Steph and she knew that with her personal experience and knowledge she’d be the perfect person for me to talk to, and she couldn’t have been more right.
Steph spoke with me over the phone, texted with me through the night, and even visited me!She was able to not only provide knowledgeable breastfeeding information, but empower me to trust my instincts! Where I had doubts, Steph helped me process and weed out what was my insecurity and what was real.
Without Steph I wouldn’t have known to have Sabina evaluated for tongue and lip tie, wouldn’t have done all the research in one day (she literally talked me through every step of the way), wouldn’t have had Sabina revised as she was a level 4 on both, and wouldn’t have dropped the nipple shield which was really inhibiting breastfeeding/Sabinas ability to transfer milk. All of this were causing Sabina slow weight gain and It wouldn’t have been long before the pressure to give her formula would have been on.
I am so eternally grateful to Steph for helping me preserve such a sacred and important part of my relationship with my daughter and I turn every Mom who’s trying to breastfeed her way!
What I love most about Steph is that with all her knowledge and experience, she remains humble. She is down to Earth, humorous, and does not judge at all. She is passionate about breastfeeding but if a Mom is ready to stop, she doesn’t pressure, she is still caring and kind! She believes in breastfeeding for babies but she believes most in providing correct education along with love and support to Moms, something we need more of!
-Brigid F.